Be passionate about what you want in life. not just wish it, want it badly otherwise you will make enough efforts to achieve it. First, realize if that is what you want and then continue each and every step in the direction of achieving it. create a mental picture in your mind as if you have already achieved it. Write down your each and every morning your goals. Then get up and push yourself. You have to realize that it will not just be a pipedream, you will have it in your life if you think you are worthy of it. say it out loud every day to get it deep within your subconscious mind. You have to believe that you can have it no matter what.
We go through life with extreme amounts of negativity and self-doubts throughout our childhood and no amount of talent and capabilities are enough to get rid of that lack of self-belief and confidence. we have to try so much harder for things that should have come naturally. we are born with positivity and confidence and an eternal belief system but as grow old constant bombarding from the world around us shapes our psyche so substantially that we need constant motivation to change what has become our inner core.
When we start to walk all we hear is encouragement from everyone. no one says that leave it. you won't be able to do it. every time we fall we get up with double enthusiasm and I don't know what happens afterward, everyone becomes so cynical and tries to impose their own lack of confidence and fear of failure on a child because that's what their parents have imposed on them and the cycle goes on for generations.
Every day we have to try so much to believe in ourselves but once we achieve that core of self-belief and confidence we will never go back to where we were. encourage yourself daily, and read so many positive books and motivational books that you get that spirit back.
read and think so much positivity that light is never lost even if you go through the deepest and darkest tunnel. you will come out strong and more prosperous. what past is past. we can never change it. All we can really do is focus on how to be out all the damage so next time when we read something positive and motivational, it will be a credit in our mental account and that's all we have to do. we surround ourselves with so much positive energy that negativity gets diluted in our sea of good thoughts.
We have to try each day otherwise 10 years from now we would still be here. no one wants to be stuck in their head for the same thing again and again. together we can do it. encourage everyone you meet and get encouragement in return. cheers...!
